A friend asked me what it was that they could do to show their mate how much they appreciate them. I had to think how I can explain it to them that I have tried to do. At times failed miserably at times and sometimes.. it worked fabulously. Here is what I said.
First thing.. You have to tell them. Every day. Differently each time if you can. Tell them that you think about them. Tell them you cant wait for the day to be over so you can see them again. Tell them that you saw a place today that you wanted to go to but only if they were with you. Tell them after you have gone on a date with them that you had a wonderful time. Be creative and let them know.
Next, gift them. Anything. Buy them a flower a few times a month. Not a bunch.. just one. A card. Every no and them. Few times a month. Different cards..even if its blank inside. Write what yer thinking about.
When you are having sex do it with the lights on and tell them that its because you want to see their sexy ass body. If they aren't sexy to you but you love the hell out of them make sure they know you just want to see their eyes. See them as they orgasm.
When you are out with them hold their hand. If you see someone of the opposite sex giving your mate the eye make sure you turn your lover to you, hold them close and kiss them deep. Make sure you show every one in that place that you are with someone and that they are the most important person in the world to you.
If you find that someone is trying to flirt with you do the same thing.
In a conversation with a group make sure you glance at her and smile often. So they know you are thinking of them. That you are thinking about how fun this is with them.
Remember. How fun it is with THEM. The place you are at should seem like a drag unless THEY are with you.
When you are alone with them watching TV make sure you show them you want to be next to them. That you want them to be glad you are there.
Then they asked. how? How do I do all this stuff?
My answer?
If you dont know now..learn. Just do it.
Get off this hone and walk over to them and give them a kiss..look in their eyes and say.. I love you.
Say.. i just wanted you to know that. And wait for their response. if they are distracted and you feel they are irritated by the interruption.. don't stop. If they love you and care about you then they will stop what they are doing and focus on you.
But don't be obnoxious about it. Don't pick a time when they are in a situation that is critical. You will know what is critical and what isn't. Football, favorite tv show...not critical...
Then he asked.. Why isn't this taught to us in school? I told them..because its something you have to learn threw experience and desire to do it.
Part 2 coming soon.....
First thing.. You have to tell them. Every day. Differently each time if you can. Tell them that you think about them. Tell them you cant wait for the day to be over so you can see them again. Tell them that you saw a place today that you wanted to go to but only if they were with you. Tell them after you have gone on a date with them that you had a wonderful time. Be creative and let them know.
Next, gift them. Anything. Buy them a flower a few times a month. Not a bunch.. just one. A card. Every no and them. Few times a month. Different cards..even if its blank inside. Write what yer thinking about.
When you are having sex do it with the lights on and tell them that its because you want to see their sexy ass body. If they aren't sexy to you but you love the hell out of them make sure they know you just want to see their eyes. See them as they orgasm.
When you are out with them hold their hand. If you see someone of the opposite sex giving your mate the eye make sure you turn your lover to you, hold them close and kiss them deep. Make sure you show every one in that place that you are with someone and that they are the most important person in the world to you.
If you find that someone is trying to flirt with you do the same thing.
In a conversation with a group make sure you glance at her and smile often. So they know you are thinking of them. That you are thinking about how fun this is with them.
Remember. How fun it is with THEM. The place you are at should seem like a drag unless THEY are with you.
When you are alone with them watching TV make sure you show them you want to be next to them. That you want them to be glad you are there.
Then they asked. how? How do I do all this stuff?
My answer?
If you dont know now..learn. Just do it.
Get off this hone and walk over to them and give them a kiss..look in their eyes and say.. I love you.
Say.. i just wanted you to know that. And wait for their response. if they are distracted and you feel they are irritated by the interruption.. don't stop. If they love you and care about you then they will stop what they are doing and focus on you.
But don't be obnoxious about it. Don't pick a time when they are in a situation that is critical. You will know what is critical and what isn't. Football, favorite tv show...not critical...
Then he asked.. Why isn't this taught to us in school? I told them..because its something you have to learn threw experience and desire to do it.
Part 2 coming soon.....
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